Comments on: You Make Me Shiver http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/ Fri, 25 Jul 2008 13:30:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU By: aporia http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-304 aporia Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:28:20 +0000 http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-304 To sanjins: My "love only once" was not my first love. There were certain qualities of that relationship which made it closer to real love than any other bond I have had. Thankfully I'm not going to be waiting for years anymore. With this one, I am waiting for one week - if things don't work out or no light is shed on it, I am terminating for my own health as well as his. There isn't much happiness in this patience; it's more of a maturity thing to deal with a problem. People do not change overnight. To sanjins: My “love only once” was not my first love. There were certain qualities of that relationship which made it closer to real love than any other bond I have had.
Thankfully I’m not going to be waiting for years anymore. With this one, I am waiting for one week - if things don’t work out or no light is shed on it, I am terminating for my own health as well as his.
There isn’t much happiness in this patience; it’s more of a maturity thing to deal with a problem. People do not change overnight.

]]> By: sajins http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-303 sajins Sat, 29 Mar 2008 20:53:10 +0000 http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-303 To aporia: I have read the description in your profile. "I have been in love only once." The first love is usually filled with suffering and that is why people usually generalize and say that "The first love is unforgettable" It is unforgettable because of the patience and self sacrifice we show in it. But again, I do not want to generalize...Maybe you feel happiness in that tolerance. But is that small glimpse of happiness, that probably doesn't even exist, worth years of patience? To aporia: I have read the description in your profile. “I have been in love only once.” The first love is usually filled with suffering and that is why people usually generalize and say that “The first love is unforgettable”
It is unforgettable because of the patience and self sacrifice we show in it. But again, I do not want to generalize…Maybe you feel happiness in that tolerance. But is that small glimpse of happiness, that probably doesn’t even exist, worth years of patience?

]]> By: aporia http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-293 aporia Sat, 29 Mar 2008 14:14:34 +0000 http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-293 To Adam: Hopefully. To sanjins: Fortunately I do have a much greater patience and compassion than typical people. I have waited longer than a year before; months is nothing, though admittedly painful. However, if things are worked through, everything is worth it. Call me dumb; I am tolerant. To Adam: Hopefully.

To sanjins: Fortunately I do have a much greater patience and compassion than typical people. I have waited longer than a year before; months is nothing, though admittedly painful. However, if things are worked through, everything is worth it.
Call me dumb; I am tolerant.

]]> By: sajins http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-292 sajins Sat, 29 Mar 2008 14:09:37 +0000 http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-292 sacrificing yourself? Is it the right way to live your life? OK, ok...I will wait a day, a week, a month, 2 months, and then what? What if you will continuously have to wait? Ready to do this, aporia? Are you ready to wait? sacrificing yourself? Is it the right way to live your life?

OK, ok…I will wait a day, a week, a month, 2 months, and then what?
What if you will continuously have to wait?

Ready to do this, aporia? Are you ready to wait?

]]> By: Adam http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-291 Adam Sat, 29 Mar 2008 05:59:39 +0000 http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-291 I WANT TO ADVISE YOU TO CHALLENGE YOUR FEELINGS, AND THEREFORE YOU WILL STUMBLE UPON SOMETHING INCREDIBLE. YOU'LL SUCCEED. I WANT TO ADVISE YOU TO CHALLENGE YOUR FEELINGS, AND THEREFORE YOU WILL STUMBLE UPON SOMETHING INCREDIBLE. YOU’LL SUCCEED.

]]> By: aporia http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-290 aporia Fri, 28 Mar 2008 23:40:27 +0000 http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-290 I will wait for one week. It's hard because I've been waiting for like two months already. And I know that if I don't do anything, things will not change since he doesn't see anything wrong. Oh, and I'm hardly one to procrastinate. I will wait for one week. It’s hard because I’ve been waiting for like two months already. And I know that if I don’t do anything, things will not change since he doesn’t see anything wrong.

Oh, and I’m hardly one to procrastinate.

]]> By: Nichola http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-289 Nichola Fri, 28 Mar 2008 21:48:47 +0000 http://stolich.wordpress.com/2008/03/29/you-make-me-shiver/#comment-289 Why not just wait for some time? Don't expect anything of him for now. Go with the flow. At least until you have more time. If you stop worrying about it for a while then hopefully things will fall into place. Things will either improve or at least you will know for sure what to do and what to tell him. I don't know I'm just thinking. Why not just wait for some time? Don’t expect anything of him for now. Go with the flow. At least until you have more time. If you stop worrying about it for a while then hopefully things will fall into place. Things will either improve or at least you will know for sure what to do and what to tell him. I don’t know I’m just thinking.

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